Alternative : There is always an alternative to everything.

Whatever we do, or whatever we say or hear we always have better alternatives, which one can choose to ADD value to their lives.

Many times I hear people saying that "I should have not said this at that situation" or "If I wanted I would have controlled my anger at that time" but THAT time is past now. Though we all have the immensely powerful power inside us that is our mind, which gives us different ways to handle a situation. The difference is that some can find the ways during the situation and some later.

We read many articles for "How to be Good Boss" or "How to succeed in Life" or "What successful leaders have", I think the answer to all such desires(I do not call them questions) is to learn to find better alternatives which ADD value to our life.

I have lived and will live with the thought to find alternatives which ADD value, I repeat this phrase because I think our life can become more valuable if we adopt this thought.

How and where we can use alternatives(to start with) :--

Alternatives to what we speak ---- Lets choose positive words.

Alternatives to what we hear    ---- Lets learn to be good listeners.

Alternatives to Reaction           ---- Lets learn to Act than to React.

Alternatives to be Happy         ---- We must Do good, share and Help others.

I know we all know these things, and have read many times but point is the attitude to look these things as sources that can ADD value. And if these alternative things come from our own mind than why not become an alternative to one own self. If we all start to do stuff that can add better values to our lives, which in turn will improve our society and then nation.

I have started my New Year with my first ever attempt to share my thoughts, please ignore grammatical mistakes, if any and encourage me with your experiences and thoughts. Feedback appreciated !

Thanks

Mr.Singh