Whatever we do, or whatever we say or
hear we always have better alternatives, which one can choose to ADD
value to their lives.
Many times I hear people saying that "I
should have not said this at that situation" or "If I
wanted I would have controlled my anger at that time" but THAT
time is past now. Though we all have the immensely powerful power
inside us that is our mind, which gives us different ways to handle a
situation. The difference is that some can find the ways during the
situation and some later.
We read many articles for "How to
be Good Boss" or "How to succeed in Life" or "What
successful leaders have", I think the answer to all such
desires(I do not call them questions) is to learn to find better
alternatives which ADD value to our life.
I have lived and will live with the
thought to find alternatives which ADD value, I repeat this phrase
because I think our life can become more valuable if we adopt this
thought.
How and where we can use
alternatives(to start with) :--
Alternatives to what we speak ---- Lets
choose positive words.
Alternatives to what we hear ---- Lets
learn to be good listeners.
Alternatives to Reaction ---- Lets learn to Act than to React.
Alternatives to be Happy ---- We
must Do good, share and Help others.
I know we all know these things, and
have read many times but point is the attitude to look these things
as sources that can ADD value. And if these alternative things come
from our own mind than why not become an alternative to one own self.
If we all start to do stuff that can add better values to our lives,
which in turn will improve our society and then nation.
I have started my New Year with my
first ever attempt to share my thoughts, please ignore grammatical
mistakes, if any and encourage me with your experiences and thoughts.
Feedback appreciated !
Thanks
Mr.Singh
